I’ve seen TMI Tuesday pop up a few times on Twitter, but never ventured to have a look until now. It looks like fun, so here goes!
1. Is a weird “sex face/orgasm face” a total deal-breaker?
Totally not. Individuality makes sex more fun and in fact is the total premise behind the Beautiful Agony website*
“Beautiful Agony began as a multimedia experiment, to test a hypothesis that eroticism in human imagery rests not in naked flesh and sexual illustration, but engagement with the face. We wondered whether film of a genuine, unscripted, natural orgasm – showing only the face – could succeed where the most visceral mainstream pornography fails, and that is, to actually turn us on.”
After watching the sample videos, I realised that it really did turn me on more than a lot of so-called porn.
2. Do you enjoy having your balls played with (or playing with balls)?
I like textures and the way that things change according to what’s happening, so yes. And no-ones ever turned me down, so I guess they’ve enjoyed it…
3. Have you ever hooked-up with somebody based on their proximity to your smartphone location (Tinder, GRINDR, etc)?
The only dating app I’ve ever put on my phone is Ok Cupid, but I don’t currently have an active profile. I need to establish relationships with people, before I can have sex with them so apps like those wouldn’t work for me if the match was looking for a quick fuck. Thinking about it, I’ve never slept with anyone that I didn’t know first.
4. You have some free-time in the workday–blow job or intercourse? (BJ can be giving or receiving).
I work from home, so I can flex my time. This means I can go and have as quiet or noisy orgasm as I like, mostly whenever I want. But of those options, because blowjobs are still something that make me anxious, it’d have to be sex. There’s something very hot about the idea of a partner coming in from work and without saying anything, bending me over the sofa or the dining table or perhaps holding onto the balustrades of the stairs, and fucking me from behind. Just using me for their stress relief or pleasure…
5. How long after having sex with a new partner do you have to wait before falling asleep?
I’m old enough that this really isn’t a big issue and there’s a certain pleasure in having a post-coital snooze when you’re wrapped in each others arms, out of breath, still a bit sweaty and stinking of sex. If there’s plans to go out, then I’d be a bit miffed but if it’s bed time, then as long as I’m able to sort the duvet out to suit myself and get up, if I’m not tired, it wouldn’t even occur to me to be a thing.
Bonus: What’s the dirtiest or sexiest text message you’ve ever received?
Ha, where to start…
* If two people sign up through my link, I get full site access for a month and will be a very wriggly kitty…