Another TMI Tuesday, this one is “sexy time”
1. Have you ever had sex in the changing room of a store?
No, other than high rise sex, I’m not an exhibitionist at all and worry about getting caught. Same with airplane toilets for the mile-high club, although I love the thought. I think the most daring thing I’ve done in a changing room is taken a picture of my boobs and sent it on WhatsApp!
2. Ever blindfolded your partner for sex or have you been blindfolded during sex?
I’m totally submissive, not even switchy so whilst I like the idea of teasing someone, it is a complete turn-off in real life. Being blindfolded on the other hand is far more fun. I love sensory-deprivation play… listening to try and work out what’s happening… anticipating the next spank… being made to wait… now that is a turn-on. It taps into my fantasies about control, too.
3. Who out there likes to be tied up for sex?
I never know what to do with my hands and start to hyperfocus on them, so being tied up works for me on many levels. I love being told what to do or being made what to do and being restrained means I have to let that happen, feeding my kinks. It also allows my brain to let go more and be more present in the moment, things I struggle to do, day-to-day.
4. Shower sex… yea or nay? Why?
When there’s enough room, definitely and as long as I don’t have to tolerate cold tiles or cold water, I’m totally up for that. There’s something very sensual about the way that skin glides across skin under water. I love that slip and slide. And of course, having my breasts all soaped up is an amazing feeling. The shower is the most likely place I’ll offer a blow-job too, not a guarantee, but it doesn’t seem to trigger the same issues I normally have.
5. Ever done a striptease for a lover?
Nope. Not without collapsing ten seconds later, doubled up with laughter. Balance and co-ordination are not my thing and it just makes me feel so uncomfortable that I just go for the comedy aspect and then run away…
Bonus: What are you thinking?
Not quite so sexy, but I really need more sleep. And perhaps I should go get a cup of tea. Oh, and why am I not sunbathing naked on a beach in Greece…? Sigh…