Handjobs

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Kink of the Week is all about handjobs. I love the variety of my sex life and handjobs certainly play a role.

Sex for me isn’t just PIV (penis in vagina), it’s so much more. Sights, sounds and smells. Temperature and textures. Moans and sighs and gasps and whimpers.

It’s about connecting with my partner, mutual pleasure and a shared experience. And I definitely like playing with his cock.

Handjobs are full of contrast. Soft skin and hard heat. Firm grips and gentle flicks of the wrist.

There’s a level of intimacy, knowing when to back off to prolong the tease, how he likes to be touched. The signs that he’s about to come… the ragged breath, the rise and dip of his abdomen, the low growl rising in volume.

And there’s deciding where the mess is going to land. How hard he’s going to come, wondering how far he’ll spurt. Whether it’s going to be over my panty-clad arse, my naked breasts, or my upturned face.

Until recently, I didn’t know how else to touch other than the standard ‘up and down’ grip. I’ve always asked and never been told. But watching porn has taught me a whole bunch of tricks and I’m slowly being brave enough to use them. And I love it. His reaction when I do something different makes me happy.

Handjobs don’t need preparation. They don’t need advance notice or special equipment. It’s straight in there. Or if there’s lube to hand, it allows for a whole range of different movements and sensations.

It’s a gift of pure pleasure.

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9 thoughts on “Handjobs

  1. ohhh wow You certainly know how to please Your man – as You say handjobs can be fantastic – [part of comment deleted by WK as it was inappropriate]
    thank You and i hope You have a fantastic weekend of pleasure and sin 🙂

  2. A very lovely description of handjobs. It definietly makes me see them in a better light, as I admit they have become a bit of a lost act with me. My handjob skills are a bit rusty, but I think it will be like riding a bike. :p

    1. I’ve never been that great at them, I think, as no-one (until recently) and despite me asking, has ever said what they want me to do. Sure, I’ve always got to the desired endpoint, but whether it’s the been the most pleasurable route is a different matter…

  3. “It’s a gift of pure pleasure.” Absolutely yes to this, I love giving M a handjob and lube is an essential key to the really good one in my opinion

    Mollyx

    1. It’s all about connection for me. My sex life for so much better when I realised that, and found someone who agrees 🙂

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