TSH read my Vanilla, Kink and Filthy Sex blog post and it triggered a few discussion points for us. He started off by saying that anal sex isn’t filthy in his mind, but normal.
I re-watched the Brené Brown TED Talk, “The Power of Vulnerability” for the millionth time. And yet again, it struck me how powerful her words are.
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“Your loyalty is amazing,” said TSH and he’s damn right. Despite it hurting like hell sometimes, it’s a strength.
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Content warning: as the title suggests, there is (fairly heavy) mention of abuse in this article, plus mention of self harm. A quote of mine was featured in Metro this week and for editorial reasons, it was cut down. However, it did get me thinking about how my past has affected every aspect of my sexual, and indeed other, behaviours.
In the past 6-7 months, I’ve released a lot of old fears, insecurities and unhelpful beliefs. I’ve cemented in my mind the sheer joy of fucking, rather than it being an obligation or a means to an end. But it doesn’t make it any less anxiety-inducing.
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